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经历了十多年的动荡后,叙利亚问题近期迎来了和平契机――
一方面,叙利亚国内安全形势趋于稳定,社会和经济重建进程逐渐开启。2018年以来,随着叙利亚政府军的不断胜利,叙利亚政府已经重新解放了国内大部分地区。尽管叙利亚西北部地区仍盘踞着一些反对派军事组织,但叙利亚国内的安全形势已大体稳定。在此基础上,叙利亚政府在关键城市和重点区域开启了战后经济重建进程。
另一方面,叙利亚问题的主要当事方释放出和解的积极信号。一是在联合国和俄罗斯的斡旋下,叙利亚政府和叙利亚反对派政治团体开启了“索契和平进程”。该机制成为推动叙利亚各方实现政治对话与和解的重要多边机制。二是土耳其近期调整了在叙利亚问题上的政策,开始同叙利亚政府展开直接沟通。三是阿拉伯国家联盟在暂停叙利亚政府会员国资格近12年后,通过决议恢复了叙利亚政府的成员国资格。在中国的积极斡旋下,沙特和叙利亚宣布恢复中断十多年的外交关系。
然而,就在中东地区及国际社会期盼叙利亚尽快开启和平进程时,美国却公然唱起了“反调”,作为介入叙利亚危机并引发战争、长期对叙施加制裁的“搅局者”,美国对叙利亚问题的解决负有不可推卸的责任。然而,美国不仅没有推动叙利亚的和平重建进程,反而通过各种手段干预叙利亚内政,严重阻碍了叙利亚问题的解决。
在安全上,美国在叙利亚的军事存在,成为叙利亚安全形势的重要隐患。2011年叙利亚危机爆发后,美国不仅向叙利亚境内的军事团体提供各类支持,还直接派遣军事人员进驻叙利亚南部和北部。2018年后,随着叙利亚安全局势逐渐平稳,美国并未撤离叙利亚,反而继续驻扎军事人员,公然在叙利亚北部盗取当地石油资源,走私到土耳其和伊拉克获得非法利益。尽管叙利亚政府和国际社会一再呼吁美国撤离叙利亚,但是美国仍然以“监视当地恐怖组织”为由赖着不走,成为叙利亚安全形势的重大隐患。
在政治上,美国不仅公开反对同叙利亚政府展开对话,还长期支持叙利亚反对派政治团体。在土耳其、沙特阿拉伯、阿联酋等国纷纷改善同叙利亚政府的关系,阿拉伯国家联盟恢复叙利亚政府会员国资格的情况下,美国一意孤行,批评地区国家的和平动态,否认叙利亚政府的合法性。美国国务院副发言人韦丹特・帕特尔曾赤裸裸地威胁:“美国不支持与叙利亚政权实现关系正常化,也不支持包括我们的伙伴和盟友在内的其他国家参与(同叙利亚的)关系正常化行动。”
在经济上,美国主导的制裁措施,成为叙利亚经济和社会重建的关键障碍。2011年叙利亚危机爆发后,美国伙同一些西方国家,共同针对叙利亚出台了制裁措施,力图割裂叙利亚同国际社会的经贸联系,打压叙利亚经济重建进程。2023年2月,叙利亚、土耳其边境地区发生强烈地震后,美国仍坚持制裁措施,在国际舆论压力下才宣布临时取消对叙制裁中涉及地震救援的部分,但当时已过72小时黄金救援期。美军还霸占叙主要产粮区和产油区,搜刮掠夺叙国家资源,令当地人道主义危机雪上加霜。白宫又发布消息称,美国总统拜登决定自5月11日起把对叙利亚的单边制裁措施再延长一年。
长期以来,美国不仅在中东制造动乱,还利用中东乱局挑拨离间、制造对抗,强推“美式民主”,以期维持在中东地区的霸权,严重损害中东地区的和平、稳定与发展。现在,在叙利亚问题迎来解决“窗口期”之时,美国仍逆潮流而动,试图继续孤立和围堵叙利亚,这是霸权逻辑使然:美国不愿意看到中东国家自主性增强,也不愿意失去对中东地区的控制。面对中东地区的“和解潮”以及国际社会的和平呼声,美国的干预政策注定失败。
(作者为西北大学中东研究所副教授)
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这个即将中考的男孩,如此惶恐不安,持续在焦虑状态之中,按照医学的icd10的诊断标准,可以被诊断为广泛性焦虑障碍,但是这个帽子对他并无明显的好处,我安抚他之后,理解他持续有一个向上的心,想克服困难,成功通过中考到高中,然后上大学。但是在他心中,有一个难以逾越的鸿沟,就是现实自己的成绩和心中的考试存在一定的距离,他一次次评判自己“无法超越”,认为自己“可能无法通过中考”,让自己陷入“无法自拔的绝望和自责”。自我评定自己无法获得中考的优秀成绩,根本无法顺利通过中考,为此,情绪的消耗让自己越来越更加自责,无法更加专注的学习。
是否有长期沉浸在担心自己的学业,担心考试的成绩,看着别人学习就紧张出汗,感觉自己完全无法专注,广泛担心自己无法顺利通过考试,达到自己心仪的学校。有人认为这是“内卷”的常态,但是这种不是“内卷”,这是“内耗”。持续的自我否定,自责,认为自己无法胜任,在这个过程,并不能有效的发挥自我的功能。
焦虑情绪的发生,有时是阵发性发作。是否持续的感觉心慌,头晕,出汗,看到同学和学校就感觉呼吸急促,本能的想逃避,有的人甚至无法继续学习。在综合医院反复就诊,完善各种检查,都查不出器质性病变基础。有些孩子都是辗转多种检查后,排他性考虑是否是心理问题。显然,对这种阵发性、无器质性病变急促、随着环境有波动性病程,需要小心是否是心理和情绪问题。
有些焦虑明显的青少年,要评估同时是否有抑郁情绪,比如情绪低落,明显注意力不集中,是否有明显的懒于社交,言语减少,甚至懒动乏力,性格变得和以前相比完全不同,非常内向,明显厌学,偶尔还会发脾气,让家长摸不着头脑,误以为是风暴的“青春期”。显然,还是要综合评估青少年的情绪以及对学业影响。
首先要评估自己的情绪是否足够严重,一定要看精神心理医生。如果存在了明显的注意力持续不集中,记忆力变差,严重拖延,厌学等,需要到精神心理科咨询。
其次,如果焦虑情绪只是开始出现,并且能积极要求学习,愿意做出积极改变,能自我觉察自己的担心和对考试的紧张恐惧。
不比较:不和同学比较成绩,不和中考的成绩进行比较。在考前的阶段,只和自己既往的成绩比较,只看自己是否在积极努力的状态中。
不预期:不要预期自己一定无法通过考试。对即将到来的考试做到不预期,顺其自然的接受目前的考试状态,当成一种成长的旅行,必然经过的站台,持续经历的风景,不预期后面会面临什么。
不懊悔:不要反复思考自己既往的行为不恰当,不过度自责自己”应该“怎么做才好。
要制定每天计划:考前一个月制定计划有讲究,要按照自己平时学习量的三分之一进行计划,尤其针对自己薄弱的科目更要强化训练,仅仅布置自己平日工作量的一半。要训练自己的题目要根据自我情况适应性调整,不要过度挑战。让自己感觉行为可以受到自己的控制,当自己能够做好,要给自己一个肯定或鼓励。
要每天和大家在一起:考试,是学生接受挑战是生活的常态,通过考试学会和同学在一起,要每天和同伴一起,你会发现,这是一个不断和同伴一起攀登的高峰的过程,旅行并不孤单。
坚持:要每天坚持继续学习,不放弃,不躺平。在考前这些困难的日子里,容易让人挫折,恐惧,不敢继续面对未知的考试,逃避面对会让人更加恐惧和害怕。相反,应该执行每天三分之一的计划,坚持让自己持续努力。
肯定:在面对焦虑的场景中,要积极的肯定自己每天能完成任务,积极肯定自己持续努力下的进步。
在面对学业考试的这个阶段,家长也会是青少年的重要陪伴,那么有些家长看到孩子没有学习,会分外的焦虑,认为现在的每一分钟最好花在学习上。也有一些家长,看到考试在即,能应付考试就行了。无论如何,家长也是小心翼翼,感觉自己不知道怎么能更好的帮助孩子应对中考前的时光。
家长也应该积极的面对,做出适应性调整:
首先:接纳孩子和自我的紧张和焦虑,给予肯定既往哪些方面有所进步。
其次,相信我们可以充分利用眼下的每一分钟,相信我们持续进步,一直在路上。
再其次,利用一切细小细节的改变,给予孩子鼓励和表扬。
最后,多一点陪伴,让孩子感受到,“孩子,爸爸妈妈和你共同成长。”
当初那个大男孩回来和我说,我模考进步很多。我恭喜他,他一直都在努力。每一个考试,每一场准备,都是一种旅行,旅行中让我们看到自己如此的努力成长,也看到随之而来的不同风景。盛夏之后,就是秋果。
作者:上海市精神卫生中心副主任医师从恩朝
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